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		<title>The Awe of Sandplay: Training</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 06:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This blog has a new home! Please join us at RelationalSandplayTherapy.com for the latest updates. I have trained therapists in sandplay for almost 15 years. What strikes me most about these trainings is the sense of awe experienced by the participants. As they dig into the sand, choose meaningful figures and build their own sandtrays&#8211;a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=212&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I have trained therapists in sandplay for almost 15 years. What strikes me most about these trainings is the sense of awe experienced by the participants. As they dig into the sand, choose meaningful figures and build their own sandtrays&#8211;a very important part of the training&#8211;they experience the numinous depth of sandplay. It is very difficult to communicate to the naive reader what this is like. As with so many things, you must experience it for yourself. One can get a sense of this deepening<br />
by viewing slides of sandplay cases, verbally playing with the possible meanings of the images in the sand, but sandplay is a hands on experience, a visceral, emotional experience of deepening into oneself. To fully appreciate this experience, thus expanding your learning of sandplay, I recommend <span id="more-212"></span>you find a training that provides you with your own experience of making a tray.</p>
<p>If you find yourself fascinated by your experience with the sand and figures, captivated by the personal, unconscious archetypal story revealed from deepest psyche, the next step is to find yourself a qualified sandplay therapist and begin your own sandplay process. Begin it, and continue with it until you &#8220;know&#8221; that you are finished. This knowing will come from places inside you other than your thinking mind. It will come from your body, from your intuitive, emotional self, and you will be embraced by a sense of completion. You may choose to take part in sandplay trainings as you do your process, but be careful not to learn too much! The left brain can attempt to dominate the right brain in these matters, overriding what your body and deepest unconscious need to express.</p>
<p>If you find yourself reluctant to do a sandplay process, you might ask yourself, &#8220;What do I fear?&#8221; Remember that it is important to traverse the territory yourself before you are qualified to lead others. Above all, enjoy the <em>play</em> in sandplay. Let your inner child delight in the sand. Bodily memories of the beach or the sandbox in childhood invite our adult selves to surrender to the play in the sand.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 03:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This blog has a new home! Please join us at RelationalSandplayTherapy.com for the latest updates. In these times, many of our clients suffer from deep anxieties.  Frequently, these anxieties reach into the psychic territory of unsymbolized experience: thoughts that cannot be thought, and feelings that cannot be felt. Use of countertransference as a clinical tool [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=199&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>In these times, many of our clients suffer from deep anxieties.  Frequently, these anxieties reach into the psychic territory of unsymbolized experience: <em>thoughts that cannot be thought, and feelings that cannot be felt</em>. Use of countertransference as a clinical tool was developed so that psychotherapy could reach a broader range of people, to include the unsymbolized aspects of experience common for those who have suffered early relational trauma.</p>
<p>Even so, in the world of countertransference the therapist is always a beginner. The meaning <span id="more-199"></span>of countertransference is not truly, definitively knowable. It is ephemeral—a momentary flicker from implicit realms. We can only seek to put fluid symbolic meaning onto the somatic or emotional points of light.</p>
<p>In doing so, we may come to think of countertransference as a form of mystical experience.  Jungian analyst Andrew Samuels explores the similarities between mystical experience and countertransference:</p>
<p>&#8220;First, mystical states are ineffable; that is, they cannot be fully described to one who has not experienced something similar.  Second, mystical states lead to knowledge and insight, often delivered with a tremendous sense of authority.  Third, mystical states are transient.  Fourth, mystical states happen to a person; even if he or she prepared him/herself, he or she is gripped by a power that feels quite foreign.  Fifth, there is a sense that everything is connected to everything else, an intimation of purpose.  Sixth, the mystical experience is timeless.  Finally, the familiar ego is sensed not to be the real ‘I.’&#8221;  (1989, p. 166)</p>
<p>Even “mundane,” ordinary countertransference  may be experienced as mystical as it delivers understanding in an ineffable, timeless way.</p>
<p>Samuels, A. (1989). <em>The plural psyche: Personality, morality and the father</em>. London: Routledge.</p>
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		<title>The Four Archetypal Relational Fields: Field Four</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Aug 2010 02:13:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>drlindacunningham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This blog has a new home! Please join us at RelationalSandplayTherapy.com for the latest updates. Field Four: The Numinous Field of the Transcendent Function Sometimes, Field Three leads us into Field Four (O’Connell, 1986), The Numinous Field, the heart of the transcendent function. The essence of Field Four is a dramatic shift in attitude accompanied [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=121&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><strong>Field Four: The Numinous Field of the Transcendent Function</strong></p>
<p>Sometimes, Field Three leads us into Field Four (O’Connell, 1986), <em>The Numinous Field</em>, the heart of the transcendent function. The essence of Field Four is a dramatic shift in attitude accompanied by a sense of awe and the constellation of the Self that is so familiar to Jungian sandplay therapists. Field Four is a shared, transcendent, relational experience of the union of conscious and unconscious, and it is an experience completely <span id="more-121"></span>void of anxiety. In the diagram below, the Field Four area is the outer layer of the <em>Self In Relationship</em> circle. This represents an ever present, numinous psychic holding. The therapeutic goal, within this timeless container of shared psychic experience, is to gradually move into embodied, emotionally connected self-reflection, and to establish fluid oscillation between all four fields. Field Four is the ever present, numinous container.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 02:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Field Three: The Field of Differentiated Oneness/ Transitional Space Field Three is characterized by the meaningful use of the symbol and deep relational connection. It holds the experience of fluent empathy where the unconscious minds of patient and therapist are aligned. It is a field of rich symbolic meaning, full associations, or meaningful silence. This [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=118&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Field Three is characterized by the meaningful use of the symbol and deep relational connection. It holds the experience of fluent empathy where the unconscious minds of patient and therapist are aligned. It is a field of rich <span id="more-118"></span>symbolic meaning, full associations, or meaningful silence. This is the <em>secured-symbolizing </em>field of transitional space (Goodheart, 1980). It is also the field that is most often described in sandplay, and it is usually experienced as a field of fluid, symbolic understanding. Experiences of meaningful resonance with the movement of psychic energies are common in this field. Dreams and sandplay often activate this field of deep meaning and connection. In the diagram below, the Field Three area is represented by the third ring from the center in the <em>Self In Relationship</em> circle. This represents the integrated somatic/ emotional/ symbolic-relational aspect of the Self. The therapeutic goal is to gradually move into easy connection with this field of embodied, emotionally connected self-reflection, and to establish fluid oscillation between all four fields.</p>
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		<title>The Four Archetypal Relational Fields: Field Two</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 02:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>drlindacunningham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Field Two: The Field of Twoness/ Rupture When we find ourselves in Field Two: The Field of Twoness/Rupture, also a field of relational trauma and presymbolic experiencing, our subjective experience is that of intense affective turmoil and discontinuity. In this field we feel “held captive” in relational conflict. We find ourselves embroiled in a struggle [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=115&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>When we find ourselves in <em>Field Two: The Field of Twoness/Rupture</em>, also a field of relational trauma and presymbolic experiencing, our subjective experience is that of intense affective turmoil and discontinuity. In this field we feel “held captive” in relational conflict. We find ourselves embroiled in a struggle with disturbing unconscious contents, intense affect, and mutually activated complexes. It is a field of discomfort, conflict, and difficulty, and often entails a visceral, extremely disturbing experience. A therapist may feel taken over by feelings of <span id="more-115"></span>anxiety, terror, shame, dread, or physical illness. “Rupture” refers to the ambient anxiety in this field that empathic rupture is imminent. We fear that no matter how hard we try, we will somehow fail to provide holding in a way that avoids this rupture. Yet the sheer dynamic aliveness of this field lends itself to profound transformation. Therapeutic work in this field often requires that the therapist look to her own complexes’ involvement in the field in order to move from, a “feeling against” to a “feeling with.” (The terms “feeling with” and “feeling against” were coined by Kay Bradway (1991; 1997), but she used them in a different context.) The goal is to find within ourselves our own resistance, and to surrender into deep empathy for the primitive, traumatized places we may share with the client.</p>
<p>In the diagram below, the Field Two area is the second ring from the center of the <em>Self In Relationship</em> circle. This represents the emotional core of the Self. The therapeutic goal is to gradually move into embodied, emotionally connected self-reflection, and to establish fluid oscillation between all four fields.</p>
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		<title>The Four Archetypal Relational Fields: Field One</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 01:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Field One: The Field of Original Oneness/Merger In Field One the therapist’s subjective experience is often a sensory, presymbolic one. Symbolic meaning is difficult or impossible to find, and boredom, confusion, or emptiness are often the predominant countertransference states in this field. This sensory rather than emotional or thinking experience may include a focus of sensation [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=105&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight:normal;font-size:13px;"><strong>Field One: The Field of Original Oneness/Merger</strong></span></p>
<p>In Field One the therapist’s subjective experience is often a sensory, presymbolic one. Symbolic meaning is difficult or impossible to find, and boredom, confusion, or emptiness are often the predominant countertransference states in this field. This sensory rather than emotional or thinking experience may include a focus of sensation in one’s <span id="more-105"></span>head; dizziness; confusion; a sense of deadness; a watery feeling; a feeling of dissolving into space; a sense of being disconnected; being unable to think; a distortion of objects or people in space; or feelings of being controlled, empty, or paralyzed. The therapist will often feel held at bay, ineffective, and completely useless. It is the hallmark of the field of Original Oneness/Merger to feel boredom, anxiety, or dissociation. Therapeutic work in this field requires that the therapist tolerate, contain and digest presymbolized experience. This takes time, patience and a full use of the therapist’s reverie, including countertransference images and body sensations. This field takes us into our bodies—or out of our bodies— but always involves sensory experience. In the diagram below, the Field One area is in the center of the <em>Self In Relationship</em> circle. This represents the somatic core of the Self. The therapeutic goal is to gradually move into embodied, emotionally connected self-reflection, and to establish fluid oscillation between all four fields.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 01:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>drlindacunningham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This diagram of Self in Relationship shows the Four Archetypal Relational Fields, from Field One in the center, moving outwards through Field Two, Field Three and Field Four. These fields represent the somatic, emotional, symbolic, and spiritual realms of human relational experience. All of these relational fields are normal aspects of human experience, and may [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=99&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>This diagram of <em>Self in Relationship</em> shows the Four Archetypal Relational Fields, from Field One in the center, moving outwards through Field Two, Field Three and Field Four. These fields represent the <strong>somatic, emotional, symbolic, and spiritual </strong>realms of human relational experience.</p>
<p>All of these relational fields are normal aspects of human experience, and may be experienced fleetingly or <span id="more-99"></span>at any time in life. Experience in these fields follows a developmental path. In health, one experiences an easy oscillation between all fields.</p>
<p>In psychotherapy, the fields become “constellated” between therapist and client. The first two fields arise from early relational trauma, and may present as &#8220;stuckness&#8221; in the clinical relationship. These early fields normalize and provide a framework for working with confusing or disturbing countertransference experience.</p>
<p>The Four Archetypal Relational Fields are:</p>
<p><strong>Field One: The Field of Original Oneness and Merger</strong></p>
<p><strong>Field Two: The Field of Twoness and Rupture</strong></p>
<p><strong>Field Three: The Field of Differentiated Oneness/ Transitional Space</strong></p>
<p><strong>Field Four: The Numinous Field of The Transcendent Function</strong></p>
<p>I will describe each of these fields in depth in the next three posts.</p>
<p>Important note: Please do not use this field theory for pathologizing clients. We speak of the nature of the field that is <strong><em>co-created</em></strong> between therapist and client, i.e., &#8220;a feeling of field one,&#8221; &#8220;a field one experience,&#8221; and <em><strong>not</strong></em> &#8220;a field one client.&#8221;</p>
<p>Also, these fields move in an out, or may be layered, and are rarely found in pure form. However, with early relational trauma, the therapist may encounter a more pervasive  experience of the field.</p>
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		<title>Theoretical Understanding of the Sandplay Process</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 23:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relational sandplay therapy embraces all of these Kalffian theoretical principles: Unconscious processes are expressed in concrete, visible form. “Energies in the form of ‘living symbols’ are touched upon in the personal and collective unconscious, and healing then happens spontaneously at the unconscious level” (Lauren Cunningham, 2004). Contact with archetypal energies results in a change in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=82&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Relational sandplay therapy embraces all of these Kalffian theoretical principles:</strong></p>
<p>Unconscious processes are expressed in concrete, visible form.</p>
<p>“Energies in the form of ‘living symbols’ are touched upon in the personal and collective unconscious, and healing then happens spontaneously at the unconscious level” (Lauren Cunningham, 2004).</p>
<p>Contact with archetypal energies results in a <span id="more-82"></span>change in relationship between inner and outer worlds. There is then a return to a more integrated state.</p>
<p>The Jungian individuation process leading to Wholeness is visible in sandplay.</p>
<p>Neumann’s stages of development are foundational.</p>
<p>The freeing up of blocked psychic energy may be visible in the tray.</p>
<p>Sandplay facilitates a regression to the mother-infant unity and healing on the matriarchal level of consciousness.</p>
<p>The recovery of the Feminine is profoundly healing.</p>
<p>Play is the mediator between conscious and unconscious and the avenue to the expression of preverbal material.</p>
<p>Healing is implicit in the union of opposites and <em>the transcendent function</em>.</p>
<p>The constellation/manifestation of the Self, “this inner order, this pattern of wholeness” (Kalff, 2005, p.6) is the most important moment in development of the personality and in healing.</p>
<p>The relativization of the ego to the Self is crucial.</p>
<p>The clinician holds a developmental perspective of any given series of trays (Rogers &amp; Mitchell, 1994).</p>
<p>The transference may be recognizable in the sandplay itself.</p>
<p>This is an excerpt from an article that appeared in <a href="http://www.sandplay.org/abstracts/j-16-2-cunningham_linda.htm">The Journal of Sandplay Therapy, Volume XVI, Number 2, 2007: <em>But is it Kalffian?</em> by Linda Cunningham</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relational sandplay therapy embraces all of these Kalffian principles: Provision of the free and protected space. Loving maternal holding of the temenos. Receptive openness to the patient and to the unconscious as it emerges. Allowing the emergence of the material in its own time and in its own way, without interference with the creative process. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=73&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Relational sandplay therapy embraces all of these Kalffian principles:</strong></p>
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<p>Provision of the free and protected space.</p>
<p>Loving maternal holding of the <em>temenos.</em></p>
<p>Receptive openness to the patient and to the unconscious as it emerges.</p>
<p>Allowing the emergence of the<span id="more-73"></span> material in its own time and in its own way, without interference with the creative process.</p>
<p>A belief that the psyche, given the right conditions, is self-healing.</p>
<p>A focus on the archetypal meaning of symbols within the personal context of the patient.</p>
<p>The importance of the therapist’s understanding of the symbol, the patient and the patient’s flow of symbolic images in the sand.</p>
<p>A living connection to the Sacred.</p>
<p>Deep empathic connection with the client.</p>
<p>Emphasis on the positive transference as indicative of an intact free and protected space.</p>
<p>Emphasis on the nonverbal, symbolic work in the sand, and an understanding that it is    <em>the experience itself</em> which heals.</p>
<p>This is an excerpt from an article that appeared in The Journal of Sandplay Therapy, Volume XVI, Number 2, 2007: <em>But is it Kalffian?</em> by Linda Cunningham</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relational Sandplay Therapy is an advanced, post-Kalffian[1] theory for working with preverbal trauma. This kind of trauma is usually due to early maternal deprivation, and is also called early relational trauma. Kalsched (1996, p. 1) defines this kind of trauma as &#8220;any experience that causes the child unbearable psychic pain or anxiety. Trauma of this [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationalsandplay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=14413359&amp;post=66&amp;subd=relationalsandplay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Relational Sandplay Therapy is an advanced, post-Kalffian<a href="/Users/Linda/Documents/Linda's%20blog.docx#_ftn1">[1]</a> theory for working with preverbal trauma. This kind of trauma is usually due to early maternal deprivation, and is also called <em>early relational trauma</em>.</p>
<p>Kalsched (1996, p. 1) defines this kind of trauma as</p>
<p>&#8220;any experience that causes the child unbearable psychic pain or anxiety. Trauma of this magnititude varies from <span id="more-66"></span>the acute, shattering experiences of child abuse to the more ‘cumulative traumas’ of unmet dependency needs that mount up to devastating effect in some children’s development (Khan, 1963), including the more acute deprivations of infancy described by Winnicott as ‘primitive agonies,’ the experience of which is ‘unthinkable’ (1963:90). The distinguishing feature of such trauma is what Heinz Kohut (1977: 104) called ‘disintegration anxiety,’ an unnameable dread associated with the threatened dissolution of a coherent self.&#8221;</p>
<p>Early relational trauma may be the result of abuse, neglect or a consistent lack of attunement between infant and early caregiver.</p>
<p>Many believe that preverbal trauma may make itself known most immediately through  emotional and bodily resonance with another person (Dahlenberg, 2000). In other words, the therapist may actually have difficult countertransference experiences that indicate the unconscious communication of preverbal trauma. These kinds of experience, to be discussed further, are likely to happen in what I refer to as Field One or Field Two.</p>
<p>References</p>
<p>Dalenberg, C. (2000).  <em>Countertransference and the treatment of trauma</em>.  Washington, DC:  American Psychological Association.</p>
<p>Kalsched, D. (1996). <em>The inner world of trauma: Archetypal defenses of the personal spirit.</em> London: Routledge.</p>
<hr size="1" /><a href="/Users/Linda/Documents/Linda's%20blog.docx#_ftnref1">[1]</a> “Kalffian” refers to “sandplay” as created by Dora Kalff, as opposed to the more generic term “sandtray,” which includes a variety of other approaches and techniques.</p>
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